tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post2717427653722992470..comments2023-05-28T07:38:56.950-06:00Comments on Confessions of a Closet Hoarder: Life, loss and letting go.Confessions of a Closet Hoarder but you can call me Judyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09618687581973592183noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-68073224867086646352011-09-27T23:20:41.003-06:002011-09-27T23:20:41.003-06:00They were babies. I've miscarried, worst expe...They were babies. I've miscarried, worst experience ever. I didn't get a picture from the ultrasound, I wish I had one. I found out I was pregnant 3 months after we were married. 2 weeks later I started bleeding, they did an ultrasound and we heard a heartbeat. Christmas came and I got lots of maternity clothes, New Year's Eve came and I started bleeding again and lost the baby. <br />You are doing fantastic, keep up the good work!!Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13393715314064217149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-62180374424986073232011-09-26T13:08:22.494-06:002011-09-26T13:08:22.494-06:00Good girl!!! You are making it happen! Go girl -...Good girl!!! You are making it happen! Go girl - you have cheerleaders in France applauding your courage!!Princess Abigailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12462601473590517921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-30026298248566853972011-09-22T11:21:48.159-06:002011-09-22T11:21:48.159-06:00Oh girl, it sounds like your baby steps are turnin...Oh girl, it sounds like your baby steps are turnin' into great strides.<br /><br />People who have never miscarried just do not get the loss we feel. Yes the babies were real and yes you are untitled to grave and morn those losses. There's not a day goes by that I don't think about the angel babies I lost. It's truly normal I think.<br /><br />I dropped out this summer and was just tryin' to do the unachievable and catch up. I always did like a good challenge! Heehehhehe!!!<br /><br />You have yourself a beautifully blessed day sweetie!!!Nezzy (Cow Patty Surprise)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10175389676508928061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-67284688333656177842011-09-19T05:44:58.987-06:002011-09-19T05:44:58.987-06:00Wow. Some people can be really insensitive in thei...Wow. Some people can be really insensitive in their innocence. Of course those pregnancies/babies were real!! I don't blame you a bit for keeping the ultrasound photos.<br /><br />As for the other stuff you mentioned... HOORAYYYY!!!! You are doing SUCH a great job, Judy! You're getting there, you really are. Well done!!Crystalhttp://littlebundleofcontradictions.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-8065901841592866232011-09-18T22:40:28.093-06:002011-09-18T22:40:28.093-06:00I have no ultrasound pictures of my babies that I ...I have no ultrasound pictures of my babies that I lost , but I agree with you . They were just as real as any baby that I could have had , the loss was very real, and YES I WAS PREGNANT just because I lost them both doesn't mean it never happenedSherry Sikstromhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15739108723318002627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-33838805610880267872011-09-18T21:20:38.194-06:002011-09-18T21:20:38.194-06:00I'm so glad you have those ultrasound pictures...I'm so glad you have those ultrasound pictures! And, I think you are totally legit in keeping them. <br />I'm sorry about your babies and I'm sorry that people were insensitive in their responses. People can be so stupid. But, people can also be wonderful. <br />(((HUGS)))mrs.boring stay at homerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07519025092675731316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-57681753248790526922011-09-18T20:43:32.114-06:002011-09-18T20:43:32.114-06:00You just do for you ...what you have to do!
You...You just do for you ...what you have to do!<br />You're OKAY, I'm OKAY ! <br />We all march to a different drummer m/f. (((hugs)))My name WAS Female, I shit you not!https://www.blogger.com/profile/18261595799137622984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-89402521494185558952011-09-18T17:59:54.535-06:002011-09-18T17:59:54.535-06:00As you know my daughter had three miscarriages as ...As you know my daughter had three miscarriages as well before Sophia was born. She describes the loss the same way you did. :( A couple of ultrasound photos is not going to get the hoarding ramped up. Save them if you need to.Portiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08623040756948483801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-88099971851167720242011-09-18T16:08:32.112-06:002011-09-18T16:08:32.112-06:00I still think it's a baby and you have a right...I still think it's a baby and you have a right to mourn. I wouldn't give those up either. Some things you keep. You don't have to throw everything out. <br />I too lost a baby, 28 weeks along he tangled in the umbilical and died. It hurt me more than anything else ever had. Took me years to get over. I have a picture of him before the hospital staff took his body and I won't let it go. I scattered his ashes, so the pic is all I have left. I TOTALLY understand why you keep those ultrasounds.Mikeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03574914465998507310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-73251867117860969292011-09-18T14:24:23.230-06:002011-09-18T14:24:23.230-06:00Funny. I just went through a box of the boys old ...Funny. I just went through a box of the boys old school paperwork from kindergarden and preschool.<br /><br />I scanned it all and am printing it into photobooks for them. I know it's not the same, but it's easier to keep, and still just as fun to look through.<br /><br />I am so sorry about your babies. But they were real babies, regardless of what anyone told you to try and make it easier. And it's OK to mourn the loss. Which you can do, with OR without the photos.Julihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10097214923216967086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544369219259741408.post-78231819696434973402011-09-18T14:20:32.275-06:002011-09-18T14:20:32.275-06:00From the moment you know that baby is there, it...From the moment you know that baby is there, it's a baby. I do not care what science says. What medical people say. What other people say. In this situation, the only person you need to listen to is yourself.<br /><br />I am sorry for the loss of your babies, I can't imagine how heartbreaking that is.Amihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08353667980806676067noreply@blogger.com